Is tipping the worst part of American culture?
Mar 26, 2016 · Some people tip to help the server. Others tip out of a sense of duty. Michael Lynn of Cornell University's School of Hotel Administration weighs in …
What are the origins of tipping in America?
Aug 18, 2020 · Tipping first emerged in Europe during the 17th century, and spread west to North America in the 1800s. The practice was common among the rich, who wanted to seem sophisticated. At the time, employers often collected tips to pay their previously enslaved servants instead of providing them with real wages.
How does tipping work in America?
Why does tipping still exist in America? Tipping is to show a thankfulness of the work they have done, America has this belief that something is due when some one is doing a good job. America has an incumbent need of instant gratification and good jobs need to be glorified the second thst it …
Is American tipping culture good or bad?
Sep 24, 2015 · In a paper for the Journal of Consumer Research, marketing scholars Michael Lynn, George M. Zinkhan, and Judy Harris considered why tipping is much more common in some countries than others. The researchers looked at an international tipping guide, considering which of 33 service professions were customarily tipped in 30 different countries.
Why do we have to tip in America?
What happens if you don't tip in America?
Why is tipping rude in Japan?
What cultures dont tip?
- China.
- French Polynesia.
- Japan. Tipping under any circumstance in Japan may seem rude, because good service is standard and expected. ...
- Korea. ...
- Hong Kong. ...
- Switzerland. ...
- Australia. ...
- Belgium.
Why do people tip?
Some people tip to help the server, to supplement their income and make them happy. Some people tip to get future service. And then other people tip to avoid disapproval: You don’t want the server to think badly of you. And some people tip out of a sense of duty. “Some people tip to show off.
Is it mandatory to tip at a restaurant?
While tipping is not usually mandatory, it is the prevailing practice to leave a tip after meal at pretty much every restaurant in the United States. For the vast majority of servers and bartenders in America, tips make up a substantial part of their income. The practice of tipping has coincided with a patchwork tipped wage system in America ...
What can a server do?
ML: The biggest thing a server can do is to sell more. That means if it’s a slow night, selling more means selling each customer more, so up sell, push desserts, drinks, etc. If it’s a busy night, selling more may mean not selling desserts and replacing that table with someone who’s gonna order another entrée, so turning tables.
Who is Melanie Saltzman?
Melanie Saltzman. Melanie Saltzman reports, shoots and produces stories for PBS NewsHour Weekend on a wide range of issues including public health, the environment and international affairs.
A quick history lesson
Tipping became the norm in the 1900s. Rumor has it that the practice drifted over from Europe thanks to the aristocracy. After their European visits, where tipping was part of the culture, they wanted to seem more cultured and in-the-know than their peers.
Restaurants & cafes
I worked as a server to pay my bills during my brief art school stint. It was there I got an inside look at the dark underbelly of the US’s tipping culture. Industry insider: common consensus says 15-20% is considered a normal tip, but honestly any amount less than 20% is considered a bad tip.
Other service industries
If you are visiting any US cities, you will likely take a taxi or two. Taxis nowadays often have a digital display screen where you can select your tip amount once the trip is over. I usually choose the lowest amount (which is still good – 15%) unless the driver was an absolute joy.
Some extra tipping tips
Most people prefer cash tips. It’s money you can take home at the end of your shift. You have to wait a few days to get your tips if they are paid with a card, and they go through your manager first. Whichever way you tip, it’s appreciated. Don’t avoid tipping if you don’t have cash.
1. Bad service
Unless you never want to go back to a restaurant again, you’re wise to fork over 20 percent of the bill to the server to show appreciation. That’s because wait staff remembers who tips well and who doesn’t. [1]
2. Missing out on free food
This is one of the benefits of tipping. Because I’m friendly and always tip, I receive a few perks at my regular coffee shop, especially if I’m there near closing time. Over a decade, I’ve received at least a few hundred dollars in baked goods and sandwiches scheduled to be tossed.
3. Revenge
Do you really want to get on the bad side of a vindictive server with a chip on his shoulder and control over your food? Most people you stiff won’t slide your burger around on the floor next time before serving it, but you never know who’ll be pushed over the edge by a lousy tip.
4. Karmic payback
I’m all about being frugal. However, stinginess isn’t the way to go. That’s because stinginess spills over into other parts of your life too. I’ve yet to meet a non-tipper who wasn’t also stingy with love, friendship, kindness, forgiveness and other qualities that prompt others to be generous in return.
5. Jerk status
Every bad tipper I’ve debated blames the server for choosing a job that pays around $2 an hour, [2] since it’s supplemented with tips. [3] For all you know, that server has a kid and is working her way through school.
6. Poor money management
If you can’t afford to tip the server, you don’t have enough money to go out to eat. [4] Draw up a budget that includes groceries, so you can prepare most meals at home. Then earmark a little extra for dining out, figuring in a 20 percent tip. Go out for nightly restaurant specials, a strategy that frees up extra money for a tip.
About the Author
Deb Hipp is a full-time freelance writer based in Kansas City, Mo. Deb went from being unable to get approved for a credit card or loan 20 years ago to having excellent credit today and becoming a homeowner. Deb learned her lessons about money the hard way.
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To tip or not to tip constitutes one of the oldest and nastiest debates surrounding America's restaurant business. When tipping began to spread in post-Civil War America, it was tarred as "a cancer in the breast of democracy," "flunkeyism" and "a gross and offensive caricature of mercy.". But the most common insult hurled at it was "offensively ...
What was the racial angle of tipping?
Tipping also had a racial angle. "Class, race and gender all played a part in the early discussions of tipping," writes Segrave. He quotes journalist John Speed writing in 1902, "Negroes take tips, of course, one expects that of them – it is a token of their inferiority. But to give money to a white man was embarrassing to me."
A Quick History Lesson
Restaurants & Cafes
- 1. 20% is the REAL standard for tips
I worked as a server to pay my bills during my brief art school stint. It was there I got an inside look at the dark underbelly of the US’s tipping culture. Industry insider: common consensus says 15-20% is considered a normal tip, but honestly any amount less than 20% is considered a bad ti… - 2. Servers and bartenders live off their tips
Waiting tables is the hardest job I’ve had. It’s kinda like doing the splits on a crate of dynamite (running around for hours between tables with little to no breaks, balancing hot, heavy plates, and remembering orders like a machine), all while keeping a smile on your sweaty face. It’s also emo…
Other Service Industries
- 5. Taxi drivers, valets, oh my
If you are visiting any US cities, you will likely take a taxi or two. Taxis nowadays often have a digital display screen where you can select your tip amount once the trip is over. I usually choose the lowest amount (which is still good – 15%) unless the driver was an absolute joy. A valet will … - 6. Hairstylists and barbers
My sister Anna has worked as a hairstylist in the US for the last 15 years. From people canceling appointments last minute, demanding unrealistic hair wishes or, worst of all, not tipping on services, she’s seen it all. A hairstylist’s job is physically demanding (have you tried blow-drying …
Some Extra Tipping Tips
- 8. Cash is king
Most people prefer cash tips. It’s money you can take home at the end of your shift. You have to wait a few days to get your tips if they are paid with a card, and they go through your manager first. Whichever way you tip, it’s appreciated. Don’t avoid tipping if you don’t have cash. - 9. Dollar bills are gold
If you are staying at a hotel, be sure to keep dollar bills on hand. As mentioned above, it’s easy and chill to slide a few bucks into the valet’s hands for helping you out. At bars, the unwritten rule is a buck ($1) for a drink. I also leave a few bucks for cleaning staff in my hotel room each day.